New Self Help Chastity book! The Chaste Manifesto!

 I've written something new, based on my experience of two years of permanent chastity!

 

You can also get it on LULU. 

 

A manifesto for the other, darker style of male chastity couple dynamic!

Male chastity is a great kink, but the Internet would have us believe there’s only one way to do it: she’s the “keyholder” and enjoys teasing and edging and pegging and playing games with the key and...

And that’s great. However, there’s another, darker sweet spot for male chastity relationships… one that’s surprisingly sustainable, and surprisingly easy to end up in.

It turns out that some kinky wives and girlfriends take a cheerfully ruthless attitude towards male chastity. To them, it’s a useful and perhaps amusing body modification, not worthy of much attention once it’s done. The sex is great, and would be greater still if he’d shut up about his caged man parts.

Kinky dynamics like this are not necessarily a good idea, and once established, hard to escape.

However, if that’s where you’re at, or what you want, then this manifesto — born of twenty years of chastity experience, and two years of permanent chastity — will help you make it work 

Dare you click through to this dark and probably unwise manifesto?

"The Vanilla Dominatrix" published!

It's finally done! I'm exhausted! (Only the paperback is available at the moment. As I understand, the ebook will follow.)

It is my distilled wisdom on getting your wife or girlfriend to take you as a sex slave (part-time), without making an ass of yourself.

Of this more later. But here's the thing from the back of the book:

Wouldn’t it be nice to get the vanilla woman you love to enjoy sexually dominating you?

Sorry, you can’t change her.

All the persuasion and pleading in the world won’t turn her into an all-strutting, all-teasing latex super-bitch!

The good news is, you don’t have to turn her into anything. You just have to sell her a part-time slave – you!

This book takes you through offering her what she can’t and shouldn’t get in your real-life relationship, and how to manage the results – yes, you’re the one who has to do all the work.

You get to be authentically enslaved, and she gets to be a “Vanilla Dominatrix.”

Read on, and find out how.

Romans had male chastity belts!

I've been doing some research for my book, "The Vanilla Dominatrix".

Look at the fresco from Pompeii - she's at her leisure, naked, but he's wearing clothes. I think it's a dead cert he's her slave.

And, guess what? I found some interesting quotes:

Is your slave's prick the only true one?

--Martial (Roman poet)

Martial also gives a hint that even in mixed baths there could be "women's recesses" (7.35.7: feminei recessus) of uncertain function

--Fagan “Bathing in Public in the Roman World

For men, there is both a large fibula (like a modern safety pin), that pierces the foreskin and covers the penis, and a theca, a metal pouch, or leather bag (aluta) that encloses the genitals

---Younger “Sex in the Ancient World”

A small percentage of Roman ladies could do pretty much as they liked. Some of what went on must have resembled my darkest femdom fantasies.

Look at this slave. Is he taking breakfast to his mistress? What else will she want? And, under that kilt, is he sporting a theca?

I don't envy him his life. But I'd love to swap places for a month or so...